Best Quick Tips Ever Volume 2


Best Quick Tips Ever (Volume 2)


Here are some more super quick, highly accessible techniques that we could be teaching clients! (Remember, don’t use these if the underlying theory isn’t already part of your clinical repertoire, please!) If you haven’t seen Volume 1, see those here

 

  • Imagine Yourself on a Hot Air Balloon (or Better Yet, Sitting on a Satellite) – This is an old Stoic notion, “Plato’s View” (more about that here) that current research also suggest can quickly reduce distress. This visualization exercise allows you to change perspective, throwing even the deepest, most overwhelming pains into relief against all the rest of what’s happening in the world.     
  • Half Smile – A DBT classic, this is possible the quickest and most available emotion regulation technique of all! The brain and body work both ways, you know! 
  • Sunlight – 5-15 minutes in the sun is enough to boost serotonin and improve mood. Add to that the fact that you’re probably removing yourself from a less pleasant situation to a more relaxed/pleasant situation by going outside (yay, behaviorism works!) and getting a little nature fix (bonus mood enhancer!), and it’s even better. 
    • Also, as a reminder, regular moderate sun exposure helps prevent depression, and if you do it in the morning, helps to improve sleep! Oh, and cognitive function! And work satisfaction!
  • Jumping Jacks (any kind of intense exercise immediately) – Even five minutes of intense exercise can improve mood in several ways – by “using up” stress hormones if they’re present (yes, that’s a gross oversimplification), by getting you out of a stressful or uncomfortable situation (unless you’re going to bust out some crunches right in the middle of the stressful work meeting), and/or providing an intense enough distraction to act as a distress tolerance skill.
    • And, over time, a really excellent treatment and prevention strategy for depression! (WAY better than antidepressants) 
  • Say the Thing, Out Loud. Even to Yourself. Especially to Yourself. – That icky feeling is more tolerable once it has words that go along with it (especially if it has accurate words that go with it). But, emotional labeling acts as an implicit emotion regulation strategy, and it’s relatively effortless. Plus, the benefits of expressive writing (decreased anxiety, depression, negative rumination, and improved mental and physical health, including enhanced immune functioning) extends to speaking aloud as well!  
  • Drink a Whole Glass of Water – not only does this just give you a tiny break from whatever stressor you’re in, it’s an opportunity to engage in basic self care and possibly to engage in a mindfulness practice. But there’s also research showing that being even a little dehydrated can contribute to fatigue, low alertness, and negative mood. So a simple glass of water might help you feel better, and help you gear up for more active coping! (Also, many of us work in environments where this is something we could even offer clients in session.)

Comment below: Your ideas for super cool, underutilized quick tips? Or have you ever used any of these with clients? 

 

 

 

Connect These Dots


Connect These Dots

Connect these dots. Go ahead. Geez, at least imagine doing it!

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Chances are one of these pictures is something like what you imagined as “the way” (or “your way”) to connect the dots, and some of them aren’t. Some might have surprised you, in a delightful way. Some of them might even feel…. wrong to you. ::Gasp!:: This isn’t a mind blowing concept – people connect dots in different ways. They perceive the same situation differently. This is just another way to demonstrate this for clients. I like it because it’s experiential and also relatively non-threatening (and super easy – you don’t need anything but what you normally have in your office to do this) The Horse & Frog pictures exercise is another way I like to do this.

I’ve recently taken this exercise to the next level in a fun way…

I made this picture (it was much harder than I expected to find the right “star level” for this activity, especially royalty free) and I printed it as a photo multiple times. I keep them in my office along with 3-4 of the metallic sharpies. I hand one photo and one sharpie to each client and tell them, “Imagine you are priest-king of an ancient civilization and create a constellation.” They do, and they obviously create different constellations. One of the bonus-features to this activity is that they typically use most of the same larger stars, but they also use different medium/background stars to complete their constellations. That gives us a way to talk about connecting the dots differently, but also things like cultural background, personal history, and perceptual differences in how they construct a narrative.

 

Comment below – I’d love to see the other ways you connect these dots, or ideas you have about bringing this concept into session! And definitely feel free to steal this!